Intimacy While Breastfeeding

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If you just had a baby like many of us, intimacy becomes another game. A sport you once enjoyed comes with new hurdles. And why? Because of the girls upstairs are leaking everywhere and messing up the groove.

So what do you do? Do you tell the hubby that above the chest is off limits? Or do you let him play with them anyways.

The answer is : it depends of your relationship dynamic. Some women will put their foot down and mark it a no playing zone for some reasons. One reason is that they don’t want the baby’s milk to be contaminated with Mister suckling on them. Another reason is that it can get messy pretty quick and add to laundry duty on top of keeping up with a demanding baby job.

That said, if you’re the kind of couples that play with edible dishes in the bedroom such as whip cream, spraying girls shouldn’t be a problem for you then. You will enjoy the added kink of breast milk at no charge!

Now, if messy is what you fear, here are a few tips for you. Buy a few pairs of nice nursing bras. The kind that will have an arousing effect; the sexy kind. ‘Wink, wink.’ Then, you won’t have to worry about the work dirty sheets due to milk leakage will cause and you will enjoy giving and receiving.

Finally, if intimacy is now a chore that you just need and not one you worry about making an impression with, a simple sport bra or cami will do. I hope this helps and let’s discuss your tactics sisters if you can relate to this matter!

The next post will discuss making time for intimacy after a new addition to the family insha’Allah.


Jazak’Allah khair for reading,


Papatia Feauxzar

Papatia Feauxzar

Papatia Feauxzar is the Love & Relationship Editor of Hayati Magazine. Feauxzar is also a Muslim Publisher and an American author of West African descent living in Dallas, Texas with her son and husband. She holds a master’s degree in Accounting with a concentration in Personal Finance. After working as an accountant for a corporate firm for almost five years, Feauxzar decided to pursue Accounting from home while homeschooling her son. You can visit her website at

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