Love Letters To Papatia

Assalamu aleikum,

Are you in a rocky relationship? Is your house divided or feels like it?

Do you just need an ‘ear’?

Email Papatia at

to ask your question or lighten your heart. The selected replies will be posted here. You can be anonymous 🙂 !

Papatia Feauxzar

Papatia Feauxzar is a practicing Accountant. She focused on personal finance in graduate school. She has a Master of Science in Accounting (MSA). Around the year, Feauxzar expatiate on personal finance and romance tips here and on her blogs. She is also the Online Editor of Hayati Magazine and the author of the first Ivorian Cookbook in English. Also a poet, you can read three of her pieces in "WOKE & LOUD: A Faith-Based Medley of Muslim Poetry & Spoken Word" published by Inked Resistance. Visit her at or .

1 Comment
  1. Asalam Alaikum Papatia,
    I have read some of your stories, and really appreciate your … candor. So that is why I think maybe you can help with this kind of situation. Often when young sisters (ok, really any age!) get married, their new husbands just don’t know anything about women’s reproductive parts and cycles. Like nothing! I don’t feel like it benefits anyone to leave these guys in the dark, but I wonder how much is enough? I know one sister whose husband buys her products for her, but my mom would just die and thinks that’s disgusting! But I don’t want to pretend like I am fasting on my off days- then won’t he want sex? And I just don’t see the problem in men understanding how women’s bodies work. What do you think is the right to approach this issue?
    Love Your Sister in Big Mouthedness

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